When the moon is at an angle that coincides with the Sun, Gemini has different thoughts. You have completely different views on people, and even they can not understand why you think and act like that.
You get frustrated when no one understands you, he is disappointed when two people can make such big differences. Both are dissatisfied with the other, emotions may be partially affected by these disagreements.
Song Tu, would you ever look at your decisions and consider yourself right or wrong? Before asking others to understand you, you understand the enemy or not? Are you accustomed to authoritarianism, always want him to give in and tolerance?